Buddha Statue

School Examples

CONFLICT IS AN OPPORTUNITY FOR CHANGE – EMBRACE IT

BULLYING IS AN OPPORTUNITY FOR PROBLEM SOLVING – SEIZE THE MOMENT AND SPEAK OUT

This is what young people say about bullying in Canada. ‘There is cyber bullying, verbal bullying,

emotional bullying, physical bullying, social bullying and it all hurts.’

  • People talk behind there backs
  • say stuff that’s not true
  • teasing
  • name calling
  • gossiping, rumours
  • hazing
  • happy slapping
  • ganging up on someone
  • throwing pennies
  • pushing, kicking, punching, spitting
  • isolating someone, scapegoating
  • throwing
  • stop people playing with them
  • hog the ball
  • forcing you to say bad words to teachers if you they don’t will hit you
  • make fun of people on chalk boards
  • making fun or people
  • head lock
  • i’m going to tell everyone you can’t read
  • mamma jokes
  • big kinds tripped you up for no reason – big kids don’t share with you
  • gay jokes
  • stealing
  • play fighting

things people say

  •  let’s fight
  • you’re not invited u suck
  • you should kill yourself
  • you hoe
  • you’re so gay
  • the b word
  • she’s so whiney
  • she thinks so cool
  • you’re so dirty
  • you can’t play with me
  • I don’t like you
  • bad words
  • ha ha you look like you wet your pants
  • stupid
  • oh I hate you
  • you’re not smart
  • parents are poor
  • make fun of you

RACISM

  • talk about your family
  • colour jokes
  • slave jokes
  • you can’t play with us coz your brown
  • your in a different team coz your brown
  • call you pooh because we are brown
  • to chinese people – you look so cheesy
  • exclude you because we’re a different colour
  • causes fights
  • black jokes
  • you look as black as coal
  • you’re so black I can’t see you in the dark
  • we don’t play with people who are black
  • you brown people have to play with each other
  • why you talk like that – are you british – and they know you’re not. They know you are from Asia or Africa or somewhere else
  • i’m told black people not invited to this country
  • people pull their eyes and makes fun of Asian people
  • pull faces
  • you’re yellow
  • you’re so black
  • you’re asian you’re eyes so small you can’t see anything
  • if you touch them – say don’t touch me
  • Students think we are all Chinese and we’re not

SIZEISM

  • I’m older than you
  • gang up small ones
  • i’m in charge
  • lots of little kids bullied
  • you shouldn’t eat in a cafeteria – your too big
  • why you so fat
  • you’re so fat you must be jolly
  • fatty

One to many child has died from bullying. We must protect our children. We must notice what is going on in their lives. We must prevent unnecessary deaths. I for one do not want to read in the newspaper again that a young person has taken their life because of bullying.

Contact me for a consultation bullydoctor@gmail.com

 

Dr Valerie Mason-John Aka Queenie
The Bully Doctor